FYI: Article on Traits

Traits in a Mate “Psychology Today” December 2015

by Gwendolyn Seidman

Partners:

·         Warmth/Trustworthiness

·         Vitality/Attractiveness

·         Status/Resources

The Relationship as a Whole

·         Intimacy/Loyalty

·         Passion

Intrinsic vs. External Goals

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      Kindness, reliability, generosity vs. confidence, attractiveness, ethnicity

Focus is on extrinsic (see dating sites),” but these may prove to be inconsequential down the line.” “People may pass up partners who have qualities that make for a really fulfilling relationship”